Hi, friends! I did promise I’d try to blog more, so here I am...blogging more. 🙂 Today, I’m putting things into perspective about reviews and ratings. When I was first published I was told, repeatedly, not to read reviews. Of course, I never listened to that because well, I just had to know. Then I learned my lesson, since I couldn’t stop thinking about what the reviewer had said. Yes, I know they tell you not to take it to heart, but come on, anyone with a heart is going to be affected when someone talks negatively about a book they poured their soul into. Sure, some authors have thick skin and can read things people hated about their books and brush it off. Me, not so much. It got right into my head and ruined my day. I even noticed that it affected my writing. Too much negativity is just not good for any person, and doubt starts to stick its ugly head up. Now I’m not saying I never read reviews, because I do when a book is first released. I tend to read reviews from book bloggers who I know are gentle in the way they explain if they didn’t like something. I like to hear opinions, and even sometimes take something away from it. Reading reviews can help when I’m writing the next book in a series—as it lets me know if I need to clarify something better, or so on and so on. Though the moment I read a bad review, I shut down my computer and avoid Goodreads. Not everyone is gentle, and I surely don’t want to read someone trashing my book. Of course, everyone is intilted to write whatever they like and loathe a book, but I just don't want to read about it. Sorry, no thank you! So, that’s kind of how things went for a while. Then just recently, I noticed something on Goodreads that put it all into perspective. Some authors (me included), can get hung up on stars and ratings. Maybe it's a need or something, but we wanna be loved! I think we can get wrapped up in saying, why only three stars? Why not 4 stars? Why not 5 stars? Why 1 star—oh god, why?! Those damn freaking stars... Thankfully, Goodreads has this little thing that made me wake up one day and realize how silly it all was. I’ve taken a screen shot, so you’d know exactly what I’m talking about. Just below all the ratings, one day I noticed the part where it says, 90% of people liked it. To say this was an eye opening experience is an understatement.